Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Effective Communicator

One person that I think is effective when communicating is my center supervisor. I love that she is always so thorough about things. I also like the fact that instead of doing things that may be the easiest, she always does what is right. For example, due to the weather, we had heard that our center would be on a delay the next day, because the school district was on one. However, she didn't listen to the other centers, she contacted the head office and waited to receive word from them before actually contacting the parents and staff to inform them of the change. In addition, to make our meetings less distracting, she uses visualizations to communicate effectively with us. There are a lot of other people that I could have thought of to write about but I think her communication skills are great and I hope to get my skills up to her level.
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  1. Michelle GardnerJanuary 9, 2014 at 8:12 PM

    Shavonne,

    I appreciated you sharing about how an effective communicator needs to be thorough. Rash decisions can really hurt relationships and inhibit future positive communication. It sounds like your center supervisor is doing a good job in her position.

    Thanks for your post.

    Michelle

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  2. UnknownJanuary 10, 2014 at 7:30 PM

    Hi Shavonne,
    Your name is beautiful! I'm looking forward to learning more about you and learning from your experiences! It sounds like you respect your Center Supervisor because she takes the responsibility to solve problems and tackle issues head-on rather than rely on others to get the job done. It is also wonderful that she keeps the staff and parents informed and involved with things that potentially affect them. These are all great skills to have in a leadership role. Thanks for sharing!

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  3. bushraJanuary 11, 2014 at 9:14 PM

    Hi Shavonne

    Thank you for sharing. You are lucky to have such a great supervisor that has the ability to communicate effectively and knows how to deal efficiently with any issue that may arise in the center. I am sure that you would learn so much from working with her and you would be an influential communicator that can make a great change in the lives of our children and their familes

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  4. UnknownJanuary 12, 2014 at 5:34 AM

    Hi Shavonne,

    I enjoyed reading your post and I can relate to the difficulty you had in picking someone, there are so many people that I would have loved to write about. Having an effective communicator in a professional setting like you do would make your work life a lot better, I imagine. There are some communication behaviors in my workplace that make it hard to respect some people. It is especially hard when they are in higher positions. I am happy that you have a supervisor who can competently communicate.

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The Birth of my first son!

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I chose to write about the birth of my first son, who was born preterm at 19 wks and passed away. I chose this birth to write about because it was the most tramautic and most memorable. I also chose this birth because after reading the chapters and sections I think it is important to be knowledgable about your body and to keep up with appointments and take proper test and procedures to ensure that your baby is born full term and healthy. Five days before going into labor, I felt really bad and had an inkling that something was wrong. The physician that I was using at the time had an office in my town but was only there on Thursdays for appt. This was a Friday afternoon and if I wanted to see her I would have to drive over sixty miles to her next office. So, i gnored the signs and went on thinking that I was ok. On Wednesday morning, I woke up with slight stomach cramps. Took a shower, got dressed for work, and daughter off to daycare. Stopped by my Mother in laws house and when I got inside I had to sit down, the pain had gotten progressively worse. Still I continued on to work and and worked through the morning with the pain getting getting worse. Then I went to the restroom and noticed a bloody show. I had a coworker take me to the local er where I had to got through an hour long ultrasound of the baby and my cervix. My baby looked great and I found out I was having a boy!!!! How exciting, that is just what me and hubby wanted since we already had a daughter togther and he has an older daughter from a previous relationship. This was perfect. Now, all they had to do was stop these cramps so I could get home to inform my husband of the picture perfect family we were going to have! Well after waiting hours for a dr, to come in and see my I was delivered the horrible news!! His words exactly was "you are going to lose this baby". He said it with no sympathy at all. I immediately started crying and askign why. He stated that I had developed an infection. My cervix had already dialted to 5 cm, the blood I saw earlier was my mucus plug and when he checked me, the water bag was coming through my cervix. I pleaded with him to do anything to help save my baby. He stated that if the bag would go up some, he could stitch my cervix closed but he couldn't do that with the bag protruding out of the cervix. So I waited nervously overnight, laying basically upside down in the hospital bed hoping that this would help the bag to go back up and at least give him a little room to stitch me up. The next day he came to check me again and told me that there was nothing else he could do. I had developed an infection from having my cervix opened for so long and that if I didnt deliver the baby I would die. I felt like dying right there. This just couldnt be. I was 19 wks pregnant, certainly I could hang in there three more wks. But he said no. I called my normal dr's office and they called a major medical university located near their office who has one of the best neonatal hospitals in the world. However, they wouldnt even accept me since I wasnt at least 21 wks and due to the fact that I had the infection. So I had to accept that I was going to lose my baby boy. The nurse came into to give me something to break my water and everything just seemed like a blur. I was told that I didnt need an epidural since the baby was less than a pound. However, after hollering and screaming in pain from the emotional and physical stress, they gave me an epidural. Even with the epidural, this was the most painful and emotional births of my three births. Even with the epidural I could feel every single thing, I was in a lot of pain but dont know if it was really physical pain or the emotional and mental pain that was causing me to be in pain. Jackson Reed Hemingway was born on July 23, 2008 at 12:18pm. I decided that I didnt want to see him but having to be sedated after the birth, when I calmed down, I wanted to see my baby. I was able to see him and hold him. The hospital provided me with pics and foot prints. Me and my husband decided not to have a memorial for him. Instead, we mourned privately. Although Jackson did not live, I know that if he had, he would have had tremendous health issues to battle. Pre-term babies literally have to fight for their lifes. I would have wanted him to live. However, when I think of all the pain and issues that would have plagued him the first couple of months of his life, I would never want to see my child suffer. His development would have been slowed but learning from this weeks resources on growth and development it is not to say that he wouldnt have grown up to be a healthy baby boy.